How a Transgender Woman Found Love and Got Engaged in Under 6 Months

In a recent YouTube video, transgender lifestyle vlogger Naiah Nikole shared the story of how she went from being "indomitable and a serious dater" to getting engaged in less than six months.

For those seeking love, Naiah provides inspiration and advice on how a transgender woman found love and got engaged in under 6 months.

Naiah's Approach to Dating as a Transgender Woman

As Naiah explains in her video, dating can be challenging for anyone, but transgender individuals face additional hurdles.

Deciding when to come out, how to come out, dealing with people's reactions, and timing disclosure all take careful thought and consideration.

When Naiah first started talking to her now fiancé on Tinder, she didn't share right away that she was transgender. Naiah believes self-knowledge and being ready for a relationship are prerequisites to dating successfully as a transgender woman.

While she goes into more detail elsewhere, the key is being clear on what she wants in a relationship.

How They Met and Hit It Off Immediately

Exhausted from swiping endlessly on Tinder, Naiah decided to try the premium service, which shows profiles of people who already liked you. Her future fiancé was one of them. Since they both shared a love of motorcycles, they had an instant date idea they knew they'd both enjoy.

After messaging for a bit, Naiah got overwhelmed with the holidays approaching and stopped talking to him for a while. But on December 26, the day after Christmas, Naiah reached back out. They made plans to meet at her favorite restaurant, Javier's, in Las Vegas.

Sitting at the bar, the conversation flowed effortlessly for 5-6 hours. They discussed important topics like having kids, views on marriage, careers, and past relationships. Naiah let him know upfront that she wanted to get married and have a family someday.

The Key to Her Quick Engagement: Shared Values and Communication

Naiah and her now fiancé continued dating for 4.5 months, enjoying activities suited to their lifestyles. Naiah kept emphasizing her desire for a serious relationship and marriage. After 4.5 months of dating, he proposed.

While some may see the short timeframe as too fast, Naiah knew he was the right partner because they shared the same values about family and willingness to work at building a strong bond.

Even when conversations get uncomfortable, their open communication and trust in each other have strengthened their relationship.

In her fiancé, Naiah sees all the best qualities of every great man she’s dated combined into one. Although as a transgender woman sharing her story required time to build comfort, his respect for her when she did share affirmed she made the right choice.

Over 7 Months Later, They're Happier Than Ever

Now, over 7 months into dating, Naiah describes being on "cloud nine" with her supportive and loving fiancé.

She encourages others seeking a partner to put themselves out there, be clear about their relationship goals, and communicate openly.

With honesty, self-knowledge, and clarity, you too can manifest the loving relationship you seek.